Being 'The Other' Woman

Someone asked me what I think about being, and if it's ok to be, 'the other' woman.

And I'm like, 'huh?' LOL

I don't know, man.

I mean, obviously, some other person is going to be hurt in such an equation. If you're the third wheel, asking whether you're ok with it is not enough; I say, you need to make sure that the woman whom you and the guy is about to hurt is also ok with it, y'know?

No woman will ever willingly agree to share the man they love, so good luck with that. Of course, there are exceptions but it's very rare, a one-in-a-billion chance that you'd find a great human being, whose love for her man is greater than anything.

I won't encourage it though as it could lead to some major heartaches for all parties. But if you feel strongly about it, that you don't mind being the other woman, and most importantly, that it'd make you happy, then go for it. I just hope you know what you're doing.

Seriously, I think I'm the wrong person person to ask.

If you're friends with Sharon Tan, ask her; she's the 'expert' in being the third party :-)


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